what a touching lines!!!!

Hi Friends,,
wat a lines actually...heart touchin la..hope u too will lyk these lines
anal mele panithuli
alaipaayum oru kili
maram thedum mazhai tuli
ivai thaane ival ini
imei irandum thani thani
urakangal uraipani
edharkaaga thadai ini (2x)
endha kaatrin alaavalil malaridhalgal virinthidumo
endha theva vinaadiyil mazhalaigal piranthidumo
oru siru vali irunthatheve idhayathile idhayathile
unadhiruvizhi thadaviyadhaal amilnthuvitten mayakkathile
uthiraddume udalin thirai
adhuthaan ini nilaavin karai karai
anal mele panithuli....
santhithome kanaakkalil silamuraiya palamuraiya
andhivaanil ulaavinom adhu unakku ninaivillaiya
iru karaigalai udaithidave perugiduma kadal alaiye
iru iru uyir thatthalikkayil vazhi
solluma kalangalaye
unadhalaigal ennai adikkakarai servadhum kanaavil nigalndhida
anal mele panithuli....

Catch u on another nice post.. ba bye...

Is it love Feelings?

hi friends,
Read these lines...
Ragasiyam Ondru sonaan adi kaadhal vanthathendru
oru nodi en idhayamae nintru thudiththathu
intru enakkullae pesum palakkam athu eppadi vanthathu
enakkum vizhikalukkul yenintha pulukkam
avan kulir mugam paarthathum thulirkkum
kaanil paruvam thuyarillai sugam sugam
kaadhal sumanthaal enna aagum pennae
unnil puguntha thookkam
kolai kaaran thoookkam tholaithaai
ragasiyam ondru sonnaan kaadhal vanththendruoru
nodi en idhayamum nintru thudiththathintru

Alagaai Maarinen Kanavukkul Vaalgiren
enakkul moolgiyae naan ennai thedinaen
kaatril kalantha aval swaasam
ennai mattum theendakollai kondu aval
ponaalpirintha nenjam ontraikangal kalanguthey vidai kodu
Kannil Therinthaal Thuyarillai Sugam sugam
kaadhal sumanthaal enna aagum kannae
unnil puguntha thookkam kolai kaariThoookkam

bye....

Tips for successful thinking

hi friends,

Here are the 20 ways for a man to think successfully which i read from William Cottringer.those tips were before ur eyes now...

Success in living and working in today's "information Age" requires successful thinking. The good news is that everyone is capable of increasing successful thinking. Successful thinking is using any mental skill to get results.

Here are 20 easy ways to get better results with your thinking.

1. Increase knowledge. First, set your ego aside and openly acknowledge how little you really do know right now compared to all that you can know. Then commit to being a perpetual learner for the rest of your life. Grow, learn and improve with every breath. That acknowledgment and commitment will get results.

2. Beware of what you "know."Understand how your own brain "tricks" you into over-simplifying things, distorting perceptions and memories, and convincing you things are true despite the lack of evidence. Things are not always as they appear and all that you think you know may not always be so. Truth isn't easy to discern.

3. Slow down. Reject your natural tendency to hurry up and believe something too quickly before you get all the facts or get a chance to move to a more advantageous viewpoint. You can often get more done when you take your time.

4. Value principles. Look for operating principles that hold true in a variety of situations over time. For instance, you usually get what you expect; if you don't like what you get, blame your expectation.

5. Make one assumption.One assumption is probably worth making: miscommunication and misunderstanding are more the norm than not. Good communication takes hard work and doesn't occur without much care and effort to understand and be understood by another person through gradual clarification.

6. Verify other assumptions. Question basic assumptions you have made or that were made for you-look for disproof of what you and others are "sure" of, rather than just looking for more available proof to confirm what you already believe.

7. Re-think what you know. You don't always need more information, but rather to use what information you already have, better. Creativity can often start by looking at older, conventional ideas in newer and more unusual ways.

8. Ask Questions. Focus more on asking good questions than coming up with clever answers. Good questions open doors and create progress.

9. Separate feelings from thinking. With conflicts, first peel the onion to see and remove all the emotions that are clouding the issue. Then look for ways everybody can win something and not lose anything important by rationally discussing the situation. Conflicts are opportunities that challenge your thinking.

10. Dig Deeper. Sometimes it is worth the effort to dig a little deeper and separate the superficial surface symptoms from the hidden core problem in a situation. Knowing what the real problem is can be half the solution.

11. Accept random accidents. Sometimes random accidents do occur and trying to ascribe meaning and purpose to them is artificial. Besides you are often wrong.

12. Be positive. Focusing on negative things and differences can be amusing but it isn't very productive; focusing on positive similarities builds unity and strength. Having positive beliefs and positive expectations tend to lead to positive outcomes.

13. Exercise. You can easily get out of shape mentally if you don't exercise your brain regularly. Make an effort to read more, pay closer attention to details, have more meaningful discussions, work from a definite plan, apply systematic problem-solving strategies, analyze failures and successes, etc.

14. Learn. Learn from both your failures and successes-avoid making unnecessary past mistakes over and over again, and re-use elements from your successes to increase them in the future. The lessons you learn will reduce failures and increase successes.

15. Converse with "enemies." You can learn much from people you disagree with. Understanding "opposite points of view can double your IQ.

16. Share suspicions. The information you have that you are least sure of, can often turn out to be the most valuable, useful information, once you get over your reluctance and hesitancy in sharing and validating it with others.

17. Know where you are standing. What you see depends on where you are doing the looking from. Become more sensitive to the reality that what you see changes when you move around.

18. Study thinking.Most of our consciousness is a result of thinking, not thinking itself. Focus on what you need to know to solve a problem and then direct your thoughts to uncover that knowledge in a complete and correct way.

19. Keep an open mind.The most useful mental skill is keeping an open mind-not making pre-judgments, convincing yourself you are right, arriving at pre-mature conclusions, or not setting beliefs and values in concrete; but rather being tentative, non-judgmental and exploring possibilities more. You might be surprised what you discover when you aren't looking for something in particular.

20. Laugh. Very few things are that serious. Being too serious taxes your whole being and a good hearty laugh frees you up for more successful thinking when you may need it most.

bye friends....hope will catch u on another useful blog..

Seven tips For successful management

Hi friends,

To need a successful management one should follow some principles..Here are the seven tips in which i read from Susan M. Heathfield.....

An effective manager pays attention to many facets of management, leadership and learning within organizations. I will, however, suggest seven management success skills without which I don't believe you can be a successful manager.
The most important issue in management success is being a person that others want to follow. Every action you take during your career in an organization helps determine whether people will one day want to follow you.
A successful manager, one whom others want to follow:
· Builds effective and responsive interpersonal relationships. Reporting staff members, colleagues and executives respect his or her ability to demonstrate caring, collaboration, respect, trust and attentiveness.
· Communicates effectively in person, print and email. Listening and two-way feedback characterize his or her interaction with others.
· Builds the team and enables other staff to collaborate more effectively with each other. People feel they have become more - more effective, more creative, more productive - in the presence of a team builder.
· Understands the financial aspects of the business and sets goals and measures and documents staff progress and success.
· Knows how to create an environment in which people experience positive morale and recognition and employees are motivated to work hard for the success of the business.
· Leads by example and provides recognition when others do the same.
· Helps people grow and develop their skills and capabilities through education and on-the-job learning.
catch u on another post..

bye..

25 Fascinating Love Facts--By Laura Schaefer

hi friends,

Here are the twenty five fascinating facts about love which i read bef..laura schaefer depicted about love in his book..Here are those lines....

Love is mysterious, fascinating, and when you find it with the right person, there's nothing better. Here are 25 surprising love facts to puzzle over and embrace.

Love is a many-splendored thing … and a very surprising thing, too. As if you needed proof of that, here are 25 funny little facts about love. Study them, scratch your head over them, and share them with someone you fancy.

1. Men who kiss their wives in the morning live five years longer than those who don't.

2. People are more likely to tilt their heads to the right when kissing instead of the left (65 percent of people go to the right!)

3. When it comes to doing the deed early in the relationship, 78 percent of women would decline an intimate rendezvous if they had not shaved their legs or underarms.

4. Feminist women are more likely than other females to be in a romantic relationship.

5. Two-thirds of people report that they fall in love with someone they've known for some time vs. someone that they just met.

6. There's a reason why office romances occur: The single biggest predictor of love is proximity.

7. Falling in love can induce a calming effect on the body and mind and raises levels of nerve growth factor for about a year, which helps to restore the nervous system and improves the lover's memory.

8. Love can also exert the same stress on your body as deep fear. You see the same physiological responses — pupil dilation, sweaty palms, and increased heart rate.

9. Brain scans show that people who view photos of a beloved experience an activation of the caudate — the part of the brain involving cravings.

10. The women of the Tiwi tribe in the South Pacific are married at birth.

11. The "Love Detector" service from Korean cell phone operator KTF uses technology that is supposed to analyze voice patterns to see if a lover is speaking honestly and with affection. Users later receive an analysis of the conversation delivered through text message that breaks down the amount of affection, surprise, concentration and honesty of the other speaker.

12. Eleven percent of women have gone online and done research on a person they were dating or were about to meet, versus seven percent of men.

13. Couples' personalities converge over time to make partners more and more similar.

14. The oldest known love song was written 4,000 years ago and comes from an area between the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.

15. The tradition of the diamond engagement ring comes from Archduke Maximillian of Austria who, in the 15th century, gave a diamond ring to his fiancée, Mary of Burgundy.

16. Forty-three percent of women prefer their partners never sign "love" to a card unless they are ready for commitment.

17. People who are newly in love produce decreased levels of the hormone serotonin — as low as levels seen in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Perhaps that's why it's so easy to feel obsessed when you're smitten.

18. Philadelphia International Airport finished as the No. 1 best airport for making a love connection, according to an online survey.

19. According to mathematical theory, we should date a dozen people before choosing a long-term partner; that provides the best chance that you'll make a love match.

20. A man's beard grows fastest when he anticipates sex. 21. Every Valentine's Day, Verona, the Italian city where Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet took place, receives around 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet.

21. When we get dumped, for a period of time we love the person who rejected us even more, says Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutgers University and author of Why We Love. The brain regions that lit up when we were in a happy union continue to be active.

22. People telling the story of how they fell in love overwhelmingly believe the process is out of their control.

23. Familiarity breeds comfort and closeness … and romance.

24. One in five long-term love relationships began with one or both partners being involved with others.

25. OK, this one may not surprise you, but we had to share it: Having a romantic relationship makes both genders happier. The stronger the commitment, the greater the happiness!

Laura Schaefer is the author of Man with Farm Seeks Woman with Tractor.

Just Feeling chill When mellifluous moments before eyes

Hi friends,

yesterday i went to vaaranam aayiram movie.. really a decent n powerful expression from surya.... Gautam again proves himself to be an intelluctual n multitalented guy... heart touching scenes n of course love scenes were superb between surya n sameera reddy...this gal captured audience's heart heavily..A dad n son ought to be friendly always..This film shows the friendliness between a child n parents too....lots of days i felt that chillness when seeing a heart touching scenes n it makes my heart young n energetic... Still i dont know why my heart kills me when seeing anything beauty before..still no answer for that.. Of course is it love? i dont know...Is it attraction ? Still love that dreamy world before me..But am sure when something pleasant before my eyes we lost our mind n heart....Beauty is really that much powerful when it is shaped with smartness.... try to be a lover of dream n nature......

catch u on another post ..

ba bye..

Three things which i found

***Three things in life that, once gone, never come back

1. Time

2. Words

3. Opportunity

***Three things in life that can destroy a person

1. Anger

2. Pride

3. Unforgiveness

***Three things in life that you should never lose

1. Hope

2. Peace

3. Honesty

***Three things in life that are most valuable

1. Love

2. Family & Friends

3. Kindness

***Three things in life that are never certain

1. Fortune

2. Success

3. Dreams

***Three things that make a person

1. Commitment

2. Sincerity

3. Hard work

REAL but PAINFUL

hi friends.,,
Today by 8.30 in the morning, myself went in bike through the chekkadi street. at that time, a school gal crossed before me in her bike. that streets have corners n lots of junctions..That gal turned n her scooter dropped n tat gal in ditch now..All of a sudden she had fix at that time.i stopped my bike n ran nearby to her.her hands were shaking n her eyes went up..i shouted people for help but no one came forward to help.Instead looking me in fear they used to cross that place..A shop keeper came fast n me carried her from the ditch. that shop keeper gave rod n after some min fix stopped fully...then we got a water from the nearby house n made her to open eyes. she felt shy n her dress too in dirty condition..we asked her to wash the face n fortunately her scooty was not getting damaged n for her a little wound tats all.we adviced her to check up doctor n not to go alone in bike.she felt shy n cried. finally she said thx anna n tears came suddenly in my eyes too. myself felt a lot on that time..see such a lovely n beauty gal she s..."but i thought god only did mistake in her not that poor gal " n people were really damid n xyz.. if this gal happens to be their daughter or someone then they might leave ah..never...very selfish humans..wat they will loose by doin this....they might get good only for these things from god..still thinking of that gal..captured my heart heavily...i pray to god for her....lets pray to god for her..really i love u my dear sister.....ur words still on my ears..i wish u will be alright soon...

NO MONEY CAN BUY MOMS CARING

hi everyone r searching love n caring for them... they might find that in their loved ones n close friends too... Infact that love s different.. when v r happy their eyes r blinging full of tears in joy...see they were trying to fulfill our wish without asking them. even they were trying to hide their sorrows too.. Wants to say something . . . most peoples wer tryin to say everything to friends..see how many parents were eagering to share thier experiences to their child n longin for that too... lets share our sorrows n happpy moments to mom..then u get a response know..no one can satisfy that caring n love...when u cry they too cry ..when u laugh they too laugh..when v r neglecting them at anyway they still tryin to show caring alone not an anger or anything...thats moms love... feel happy to ve a nice mom n one of my first reviewer too..